Loving my neighbor as myself requires a radical love

 
Reding: And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ Matthew 22:39.
 
Good morning, happy Friday, and many blessings my dear family.
 
In today’s Gospel (Matthew 22:34-40) the Pharisees decide to test Jesus. They had heard that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees. They gathered around Jesus, and one of the scholars of the law asked Jesus: “What is the greatest commandment in the law?” Naturally, Jesus replied: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul and mind.” Jesus affirmed that this commandment was the first and the greatest of all the commandments. Jesus then continued and said: “The second commandment is similar: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments.” 

Today Jesus is asking us to be wholehearted. He desires that we love God wholeheartedly. God should be first and foremost in our lives. However, Jesus also tells us to “love our neighbor as we love ourselves.” Both commandments are challenging. However, the instruction to love our neighbor as we love ourselves may be more challenging than the first commandment! This 2nd commandment often stretches us in uncomfortable ways. We don’t always like our neighbor. Our neighbor may be an individual who may have wounded us, insulted us or ignored us. And the emotion we experience with this individual most likely is far from being ‘loving.’

Yet, Jesus calls us to love each and every person we encounter: the ones we like as well as the individuals we prefer to keep our distance from. Today strive to keep Jesus’ call in your mind and heart. Consciously strive to love each and every person you encounter, no matter how you feel about them. Who knows you may encounter an individual who consciously may be striving to love you!
 
The fact that Jesus, almost in the same breath, says we are to love God and love our neighbor means that one love is not greater than the other. They are interdependent. By loving God, we love our neighbor. By loving our neighbor, we love God. Not only are these two commandments similar they are complementary and inseparable. In other words, it is not possible to love God and not love the neighbor and vice versa.
 
Jesus is saying that as long as one is truly loving God and the neighbor, the rest of the Law will take care of itself. And there may even be times when such love will transcend and override the requirements of some laws. No truly loving act can ever be sinful. In this time of prayer, what does loving myself mean today? What does loving my neighbor mean today? Remember; God’s standard of love is the love of Jesus who died for us. “God proves his love for us in that while we still were sinners Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).
 
Loving God is much easier, but it is incomplete. Loving my neighbor as myself requires a radical love, a total transformation of my way of thinking, feeling, and acting. It is in this process that I become a new creature. It is by loving my neighbor that I meet God.
 
Blessings,
 
Fr. Luis+